Seeking Love Match

Finding love

Everyone wants to find that special person to call their own...that perfect match. Everyone wants to find that perfect person. The entire world is seeking a love match. It's like the line from the movie Jerry Maguire, when Tom Cruise's character, Jerry Maguire, says "You...complete me." That's exactly what every man and woman is looking for...someone who will complete them. Someone who will make them whole.

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What are some examples of what we seek in our love match? We want someone who will be there when we need them. Someone whose shoulder we can lean on. Someone who is there to motivate and support us. Someone who will be our cheerleader when we need one and offer objectivity when we need that. Someone who will be there to wipe away our tears when our eyes, when it feels as if our world is coming down around us. Someone who will hold our hands when we get scared and tell us that everything is going to be alright and that our feeling is only temporary. Someone to share our lives with. Someone we can count on. Someone we can share our secrets, our dreams, our aspirations and our disappointments. Someone to tell us that they love us and mean it when they say it. Someone that we can say, "I love you" to, and really mean it. 

Why are there over 6 billion people on the planet and yet so many lonely people seeking a love match? I'm sure that you have many friends who are seeking a girlfriend, who are seeking a boyfriend, or who are ready to get married and settle down. Surely, there are more than enough people to go around. Can it be due our expectations of that perfect match being too high? Can it be that we expect more from our love match than we are able to offer? Can it be that we are too willing to quit a relationship at the earliest signs of trouble, rather than finding a way to "make it work?" Maybe we shouldn't be expecting our love match to be Superwoman or Superman. Maybe if we approach every conversation with every person with an open mind and without prejudice, we might just be surprised at how many eligible partners we find.

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Most people are happier when they are in a relationship than when they are single. This is due to a variety of reasons:

1. Companionship
2. Someone you trust and who trusts you.
3. Security
4. Someone to share your deepest secrets with.
5. Intimacy is better when you've known the person for a longer period of time.
6. Openness in knowing that the person loves you for who you are.
7. Having someone there to share both your successes and failures with.
8. Knowing that you are loved gives you greater confidence.
9. It's a good feeling to know that you don't have to go out every weekend in search of someone.
10. The majority of successful people are those in stable relationships.

What do you have to offer in a relationship? Who are you as a person? What are your likes and dislikes? What things make you sad? What things make you happy? Have you ever sat down and given a thought as to what you can bring to a relationship? Have you ever sat down and really given thought to your contribution in your past breakups? Maybe it's your short temper that is causing people to run away from you. Maybe it's your jealousy that is driving away potential suitors. Maybe it's the fact that you simply talk too much. Have you ever listened to your partner? I mean really listened to them. When is the last time you asked them to open up to you and listen to what they had to say without judgement?

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